When somebody is extremely distressed, it can be much harder to:

  • think clearly;
  • remember telephone numbers;
  • decide who to call;
  • work out where to go;
  • remember what usually helps;
  • solve problems;
  • ask somebody for help.

A safety plan allows you to make some of those decisions before you are trying to make them in the middle of a crisis.

Think of it in the same way as knowing where the emergency exit is before there is a fire.

Having a safety plan does not mean that you expect a crisis to happen.

It means that if one does, you have already given yourself a starting point.

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